SOCIAL RULES TO BE FOLLOWED
There are some unwritten
social rules everyone must follow in order to create a healthy society:
- Don’t call someone more than twice back to back. If they don’t pick up your call that means they have something more important to attend the call.
- Once someone drops something on the floor by mistake or drops food from the plate or doesn’t know how to use a knife/fork don’t stare at them. The same goes for people sneezing, coughing or even an uncontrollable fart. It’s an involuntary reaction.
- Return money or things that you have borrowed even before the other person remembers lending it to you. Be it 1 dollar or 100 dollars. It shows your integrity and character. The same goes for umbrellas, pens and lunch boxes.
- Never order an expensive dish on the menu once someone is treating you for lunch/dinner. If possible ask them to order their choice of food for you.
- Don’t ask awkward queries like ‘Oh so you aren’t married yet?’ Or ‘Don’t you have kids’ or ‘Why didn’t you buy a house?’ For god’s sake, it isn’t your problem.
- Always open the door for the person coming behind you. Doesn’t matter if it is a guy or a girl. You don’t grow small by treating someone well in publically.
- If you take a taxi with a friend and he/she pays now, you pay next time.
- Don’t call people on the phone very late if it’s not really important, because it is not good to disturb anyone.
- Never interrupt people while talking.
- If you tease someone, and they don’t seem to enjoy it, stop it and never do it again.
- Say “thank you” when someone is helping you.
- Praise publicly. Criticize privately.
- If you’re talking to someone and notice any of the following, they’re trying to end the conversation: Their eyes keep darting away. They angle their body away from you. They give you rapid one-word answers.
- If you’re getting a long flight or train, shower before. The person next to you will be pleased with it.
- When someone shows you a photo on their phone, don’t swipe left or right. You never know what’s next.
- If a colleague or friend or relative tells you they have a doctor’s appointment, don’t ask what it’s for, just say hope you’re ok.
- If a person is speaking directly to you, staring at your phone is disrespectful.
- Never give advice to someone until you’re asked
- Do not make plans in front of those you are not involving, it will hurt him/her
- Don’t talk to someone if they are wearing headsets.
- When meeting someone after a long time, unless they want to talk about it, don’t ask them their personal things like salary, age, etc
- When someone starts talking about their ailments, don't start talking about yours.
- When someone you know has an obvious change in appearance, e.g., weight gain/loss, bald spot, acne. Never comment on it until they talk about it to you, they already know what is happened to them.
- Always ask for help or hire professional writers rather than compromising your social activities because of the hectic academic schedule.
- Most of the students hesitate to say that do my dissertation due to numerous reasons
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