HOW TO COOL DOWN THE ANGRY HUSBAND?
Many times women face some issues regarding their
husband’s anger. So there are some tips for them which are demonstrated below:
Reflect
on your actions
Think about whether you played any role
in triggering this anger. It pays to be honest with you here. If you probably
did play a task in escalating the conflict, this may require an approach of
taking ownership of your actions and perhaps apologizing for them if things
call for it. However if you didn't contribute to his anger, then your priority
shifts to showing him where he misunderstood you, but not now.
Know
that anger is a habit
Many times, a man's anger is just
a condition, a habit triggered by the foremost trivial events. It’s not your
fault that he has a short fuse, no matter how he may try to unintentionally (or
intentionally) brainwash you into believing so. His words and actions are his
own responsibilities, so never take the blame for what he does or says.
Don't
try to take the reins
Don't try to control your
husband's anger. The first thing doesn't focus on trying to change him, because
you can't. All you can do is control how you react to it and what it does to
you on your end. In other words, he can spit fire, but you'll shield yourself
from letting it burn you.
Anger
is a form of great suffering
When a man abuses a
woman, he abuses himself too. Initially, anger makes a person feel powerful and
on top of things, but it slowly burns and consumes him from within. Eventually,
that stereotypical sense of "manliness" has a boomerang effect on the
man's physical and spiritual health and he agonizes a great deal without ever
acknowledging or letting it show. This results in a vicious cycle. If you can
see it for what it is then things can seem a bit less personal and more of a
lesson about the causes of human suffering.
Do
Humorous activities
When you're in a serious moment of
witnessing your husband's anger, remember that laughter is the best medicine
for both you and him. Think about some things that make you laugh. Here, I'll
share with you one among my favourite jokes ever: "God created a person
and said to him: 'Listen, I gave you two wonderful organs which will give you
the power to think and benefit the planet with a brain and a penis. But I even
have to admit there might be a design flaw. Very likely, there will not be
enough blood flow to share between them at the same time.
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